Time for some more of YOUR questions. (I love this part of my job!)
“I’ve only recently started seeing escorts–the past six months since I got divorced–but I am really enjoying this lifestyle. I’ve seen 7 different ladies so far, but there are 2 that I’ve been with multiple times. They are my favorites so far. My question is this: What are the best gifts to give escorts? Lingerie? Perfume? What is your advice?”– New Life After Divorce
Congratulations on finding a new lifestyle! You’re doing pretty good if you’ve already found a couple of ladies who you want to see on a regular basis. Those are often the most fulfilling relationships in Consensual Transactional Sex.
As for gifts, if you’re not sure what to get a provider, give her gift cards. Amazon, Victoria’s Secret, etc. I know ladies that like Walmart and Target cards. Gift cards are always a great way to show appreciation and not mess up with a unliked gift.
Another good thing is to ask the ladies if they have any “wishlists” on Amazon. This is very popular these days. Some ladies have the link to their wishlist on their websites or ad listings. You can’t go wrong sending gifts off of a ladies wishlist.
“There have been a lot more ads on your blog lately. Are you starting to make a lot of money off of it? If so, do you have an advice on how to get started doing this blog stuff?” — PaperBoi69
Am I making a lot of money? Lol. Nope.
There are more ads appearing on my website. And I’m not entirely happy with their placement all the time. It’s done by my host service. I do get paid for it, and the revenue has been increasing. In fact, in the last few weeks I’ve gone from earning 1 to 2 cents per day, to earning about 3 or 4 cents per day.
Yes, you read that correctly. I earn less than a nickel a day from the ads on my site.Some days I earn nothing. Sometimes I have a good day and earn 8 or 10 cents. Oh, I haven’t actually been paid any of this money yet either. They don’t send me the money until I’ve earned a total of $100. At this rate, I’ll get that first check in sometime in 2022.
So no, not much money. If you want to blog, just do it man. But do it for the fun of it, not for the money.
“Where do providers go on vacation? Do they ever go with clients?” — Ledbetter
They go wherever they want.
Honestly, I don’t think providers are any different than anyone else when it comes to vacation. They go where ever they want to that they can afford to go. Judging by what I see on Instagram and Twitter, Miami, Hawaii, and the Los Angeles area seem to be pretty popular among the ladies. But those are three of the biggest vacation destinations in the US, so that seems very logical.
As to going on vacation with clients: If a client brings a lady along on his vacation, unless he isn’t paying her anything for that time, it’s not a vacation for her—it’s a business trip. That being said, I do know of times where providers and clients who have become very close have gone on vacations together that were not compensated time for the ladies. Not sure how often that happens, but I figure those must be some very good relationships.
“What is your favorite website to use to find providers?”— NSRefugee007
I use a number of websites to look for ladies to see. There are a lot of useful sites out there and I’m hesitant to say which I use, because they might not be the best fit for you or anyone else.
One of the biggest issues I’m seeing right now with regards to websites has to do with local usefulness. A few sites have plenty of listings for Sex Workers in my area, but many sites have very few—or even zero—listings for my city. That does not mean those sites are not good, it just means that my local providers are not using them.
At this time there is not any single website that is really useful in every place in America (I’m not even going to think about other countries). My “favorite” website is the one that has the most usefulness at any given time. The more actual listings, the more useful it is. For me, in my area, there are three websites that are most useful. But those might not be the same for other areas.
I would also like to advise that it is good to make use of multiple sites if you can. This can really help in finding the best quality of provider and help to establish some level of security. I recommend using at least one or two sites that have listings, and the use of a couple of Social Media networks. Legitimate, good quality, reliable Sex Workers generally use multiple sites—so clients should follow their lead on this.