FBSM—Full Body Sensual Massage—is a specialty service within the world of sex work. It is not just a “sexy massage” as part of foreplay. And it is not “code” for escort services. It is a special erotic art form. Unfortunately, there are far, far too many escorts who add the term to their advertising in order to attract more interest in searches.
Ladies, if you do not provide true FBSM services, please do not list it in your ads. If you do, you are doing a disservice to the many wonderful, hard-working FBSM practitioners out there. You are potentially taking away business form them.
There is a segment of the client community that prefers FBSM, and many who exclusively choose FBSM. This is their niche, their personal playground. This is where they find their true satisfaction. But these clients are plagued by large volumes of ads/listings for escorts who choose to add FBSM to their list of services, despite the fact that they do not provide true FBSM services. This can be very frustrating to clients, especially when they end up booking a session with a Sex Worker who does not do what they desire.
Advertising can be tough. You need to do what you can to get yourself seen by as many potential clients as possible. That is just the way of business. But they do need to be the right kind of potential clients. They need to be the right clients for you. If you are a “full service” escort, the client who prefers FBSM may not be the right client for you. You are likely offering thing that he does not desire, and not offering what is most important to him in a provider.
I am a huge fan of the art of FBSM. I’m also a huge fan of escorts. And other types of Sex Workers as well. I have different and diverse tastes. As such, when I search for providers I am almost always searching for specific things, not just going a general search. When I am in the mood for FBSM, I do not want to look at listings for escorts. I want an FBSM artist.
But in most searches on most sites, I find 90% of the listings that come up are for escorts, not true FBSM practitioners. This is highly frustrating. It’s annoying.
At times I have inquired with some of these escorts about the FBSM services they claim to provide. They don’t. Not really. Sure, they will give me a massage. Or “body rub” to begin our session. But they are not prepared or even interested in giving a true FBSM experience. It isn’t what they do.
Please ladies, don’t misrepresent yourselves to potential clients. It is a waste of their time and a waste of yours. You might get your profile seen more often by including FBSM in your listing, but those are not valuable views for you. Many (at least half, and more in some areas) of the men who see FBSM providers do not see escorts. FBSM is all they do. It’s what they want, what they love. So why do you want them looking at your profile?
No business person should ever advertise a service that they do not provide. That is just a basic of business.